Showing posts with label Enemies. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Enemies. Show all posts

Tuesday, January 8, 2019

The Good Samaritan


Scripture:

Luke 10:30-35

Quick Summary:

Jesus told a story about a man beaten by the side of the road. Two honorable men pass him by, but then a third man stopped to help. The third man was a Samaritan, which Jews didn’t like. Even though he came from the wrong family and community, he still stopped and helped the hurt man.

The Point:

No matter who is hurt or even what they think of us, Jesus wants us to help them.

Questions for Family Time:

1.Tell me the story you heard today.
        a. (see above)
2.  Who would be hard to stop and help for you? Why
            a. (this is a personal answer. The why should by along the line of “we don’t get a long.”)  

3.Who would you be surprised if they helped you?
        a. (similar answer to above)    

4. What does it mean to “love your neighbor”
       a. To help people when you see they need help, even if they are not people you like.


Deeper:


We throw around the term “Good Samaritan” a lot. It has become short hand in the news for a stranger helping a stranger. But Jesus did not call the Samaritan a stranger. He called him a Samaritan. He also didn’t call him good. For the first hearers of this story, Samaritans were neither strangers nor good.

Samaritans were Jews who had intermarried and chosen to worship God on holy places that were not considered holy to those in Jerusalem. They were living reminders of the sin that Jews felt had caused their national downfall in the Old Testament. Also, in times of national crises, they were unreliable allies. Good Jews often chose to cross the Jordan River into Gentile territory and then cross it again to avoid Samaria. That’s right. The pagans Gentiles with NO belief in God were better to travel by than the Samaritans.

That means our society’s “Good Samaritans” were not like what the readers imagined this Samaritan to be like at all. They would be the ones our society looks down upon. They are the people we expect just by the label we have given them to be unreliable.

And yet, Jesus takes this “Samaritan” and makes him the one who fulfills God’s law. It is this Samaritan who chooses to stop rather than the most respected men of the community. Which makes this parable hard for us to swallow.

First of all, because it makes us confront the fact that even when we try to treat everyone equal, we have biases about people that our society has labeled. It makes us call the person we would rather protect our children from the hero of the story.

Second, it makes us redefine our neighbor. Dearborn County residents are very good at dividing by honor. There are desirable neighborhoods and undesirable neighborhoods. We place ourselves among people like us, just like the Jews did, and avoid neighborhoods that have reputations like Samaria. Like the man who asked Jesus who his neighbor is, we find it easy to love people in our geographical neighborhood because, for the most part, they are like us. But then Jesus comes and says, your neighbor is the person in need, not the person next door. Jesus tells us we aren’t allowed to ignore the needs of others just because it isn’t happening outside of our front door. He says we are to love people in other neighborhoods.

Third, if we are really being asked to love our neighbor like the Samaritan, it means we have to be willing to help those who look down their noses at us. It means we have to love the naysayers and snobs who have torn us down and told us we are not worthy. When our hearts are cheering, “they finally got what they deserved!” Jesus bids us to show them kindness and help them get back up.

It would be easier if the Good Samaritan was just about a nice stranger. Loving your neighbor like Jesus calls us to is much harder. Not complicated. Just Hard. Thankfully, God is there to help us do the hard things he calls us to do.
           


Personal Reflection:

Who are the Samaritans that you avoid? Who are the people who treat you like a Samaritan? How is God calling you to love those neighbors?

Monday, October 16, 2017

David Spares Saul's Life



Scripture:
1 Samuel 24:1-22

Quick Summary:
Saul was chasing David to kill him. Saul went to the bathroom in the very cave David was hiding in. David could have killed him, but instead he cut off just a corner of Saul’s robe to show Saul he meant no harm. David repaid Saul with good, even though Saul had repaid evil.

The Point:
Do good to your enemies.

Questions for Family Time:
1.     Why was David hiding from Saul?
a.      King Saul was trying to kill David.
2.     What did David have a chance to do to Saul?
a.      He could have killed him.
3.     What did David do?
a.      He spared Saul’s life even though his friends told him to kill Saul
4.     How do you do good to those who are your enemies?
a.      (Share with them, include them in games, etc.)

Deeper:

This is one of those simple yet hard principles of being a disciple. It is simple to do good to our enemy. We don’t have to do a lot of thinking to figure out what will benefit people. The good things we can do are the same good things we do for our friends. Be kind. Be generous. Treat them as we would like to be treated. It’s not complicated, but it is hard.
It is hard, because even though we know what to do in our head, our heart screams to do the opposite. We want them to hurt as bad as they have hurt us. We want them to experience the pain, anger, etc. that we have felt because of them. Those who witnessed what they did whisper in our ear to hurt them back.
David was no different. King Saul had torn David from his family and now forced him to live as man on the run. What had David ever done to deserve any of this? He had won war after war for King Saul. He had played beautiful music when King Saul was restless. He had befriended Saul’s son. David didn’t deserve what Saul was doing to him. David’s friends whispered into his ear, “This is your chance. Look, God brought him right to you.” Maybe God wanted him to get back at this crazed murder…
No. That isn’t the kind of God we serve. Our God is a God of forgiveness and compassion. David chose the hard option. He chose to treat Saul as he wanted to be treated. Rather than giving Saul a taste of his own medicine, he chose to do good.
He chose to offer Saul mercy. Mercy is when we don’t give someone the bad they deserve. That’s what Jesus did for us. We deserved punishment from God, but Jesus gave us friendship with God. We deserved to die for our sins, but instead Jesus gave us eternal life. When we do good to our enemies, we offer Jesus to them. And when we offer Jesus, we find fulfillment. Mercy is simple, but that doesn’t mean it’s easy. Sometimes it is the hardest things that are the most rewarding.  

Personal Reflection:
               Who do you need to offer mercy too? How can you do that? Remember, it’s not easy, but it’s worth it.